Swingers Lifestyle Health

Shaving Tips

This applies to those who are both partially and fully shaved... To keep it looking smooth and free of red bumps, be diligent about shaving everyday! Day old stubble isn't sexy and scratches during sex or oral. Shaving daily helps your body to stay used to to hair being removed. I recommend a good men's razor (they shave closer) like the ones with removable blades (like MACH 3). Shaving cream is better then soap too, as soap becomes slippery and the blade wont pick up the hair. Do not shave directly before sex, as this is what causes the red bumps... When you shave, you open up pores and friction will cause the redness! Wait an hour before sex or an activity that has to do with touching the area (this also holds true to exotic dancers who do lap dancing). After you shave, apply an ointment like Neosporin to the area to help seal the pores against infection and irritation. If you don't have Neosporin, here is an old dancer trick....apply stick anti- perspirant...thats right...it works...and you won get those red bumps.

How to care for your sex toys

Do some comparative shopping! Toys can be very expensive. Compare online stores with local shops, just keep in mind the shipping and handling for online purchases.
Storage.... Where will you put them between uses? The more you have, the more space you will need. Especially if you have different types (I will explain that in a moment). You can use a drawer, a gym bag, an old trunk, a box or something you can keep out of the way from kids...
DO NOT STORE DIFFERENT COLORS TOGETHER! They will bleed on each other. Keep all colors separated. Even if you take two different ones on a short trip to a party, wrap them in a towel or plastic to protect against color bleed...
Vibrators wear out faster if you use expensive batteries. Use the cheapest regular batteries for longer toy life.
Jelly toys look cool, but BEWARE...sometimes the material will irritate vaginal or anal tissue making it burn like fire! When washing jellies, use only very mild soap, as jellies soak up whatever they come in contact with! DON'T CLEAN WITH ALCOHOL! It can cause severe irritation and reduce flexibility in rubber/latex.
NEVER put anything oil-based inside a pussy. The pussy cant wash the oil out and the oil will cause infection. Check the labels of what you buy, some lubes even put a spermicide in with lube. This can irritate both females and males. I recommend a water-based lube like WET or Astroglide. You can purchase Astroglide at drugstores in the condom section much cheaper than at an adult bookstore or sex shop.
Don't share your toys with any one you don't know or hasn't been tested. After each use, wash thoroughly, dry and put away..

What to bring to a party

Ladies

I recommend getting a gym bag to carry everything in... It doesn't have to be fancy or expensive, just able to carry stuff from point A to point B....in it, I recommend the following..

A change of clothes for after the party. Loose casual stuff is best.
Baby-wipes or paper towels, hair scrunchy (for ladies with long hair!) Plus any bathroom clean-up items like soap, shampoo, towel, and so forth...
Condoms (good ones, not cheap ones that will BREAK!!) and lube (Very important!!! Stock up on more then one bottle, as one always seems to disappear just when you need it). I recommend AstroGlide, but NO OIL BASED LUBE! They can lead to infection!
Plenty of fluids like Gatorade or water. (those two are best to prevent overheating)

Gentlemen:

Baby-wipes or a wash cloth (to clean up before and after)
Beverages (alcohol may impede your performance!)
Condoms (good ones like Trojan, not cheap ones that will break!!!) and lube. I recommend Astro-Glide, but NO OIL BASED LUBE! They can lead to infection!