Writing Swinger Personals

Swinger Ads

Thousands of swingers post their Personals ads online every day hoping to find someone to spice up their sex life. You should remember that your ad should be designed to serve two purposes: tell other people about yourselves and stand out from thousands of other ads.

The number of replies you get from other members will depend greatly on the quality of your swinger profile. Here are some helpful tips which will help you:

Upload a photograph/video or audio clip:

Swingers like to see who they're writing to, and as a result profiles with photographs get many more clicks than profiles which don't. One of our goals in creating this site was to make photograph submission as easy as possible, so please take advantage of this feature. If you don't have access to a scanner, and don't know anyone with access to a scanner, see What if I can't upload a photograph?

Remember that your picture doesn't need to be of a magazine quality. It is there to only give others the idea of what you look like and to make sure they are physically attracted to you, since it is a crucial part of the swinging relationship. So, make sure to have as much of your body in the picture as possible. A close up of a private part does not tell much to others about your overall appearance. Also, if you're a couple looking for another swinger couple you should include both partners in the picture.

Most people are not into revealing their identity and participate in the "Swinger's lifestyle discretely". If you're one of them and that's what holds you back from posting your picture, there are several ways to accomplish both. You can take your picture without the face appearing on it, or you can blur or cut it off by cropping the picture after it was snapped. It's that simple.

Headline:

Should summarize who you are and what you're looking for in just several words. It's not an easy task, but it's possible if you put some thought into it. That way it will stand out from other ads by telling the visitors more than the other ads, and on the other hand it will not attract the unwanted responders. If you are a couple who is looking for your first experience, certain group age or activity - it would be a great idea to mention it in your headline. So if you're a young swinger couple who is new to the swinger lifestyle and looking for your first experience, the headline may say something like "Young cpl new to the lifestyle - looking for same". In just several words you have gotten out one of the most important things about yourselves and what you're looking for. So, people who are looking for the same would be more interested in clicking on your ad and people who are out of your age group or hardcore swingers would definitely pass it by therefore spearing you a possibly unwanted response to sort through.

Body:

It is important to make it long enough to give others the good idea about yourselves, yet short enough not to bore them and make them quit reading it. There are two main points that you must definitely communicate to whoever is reading your ad. You need to clearly state who you are and what you are looking (or not looking ) for in another person or persons. It's a good idea to state your age, height, weight, location and other "numbers". You can also mention cup size, body type, hair color and/or length, etc. If you are a swinger couple looking for another couple, make sure to describe both of you and not just the female. Try to stay away from describing yourselves as "gorgeous", "beautiful", etc. Besides sounding shallow, you can never tell if you are in someone else's taste anyway. So, leave making the conclusions about your appearance to others.

Now you're ready to compose your own Swingers Personals ads. And even if you're already have one you can always modify it and re-post to see what happens.